National Organization of Whiners
NOW--which apparently stands for the National Organization of Whiners--had a convention in Albany:
Some gals are young at 40. Not NOW. It's not that NOW is less radical than younger organizations -- she isn't. Every resolution was relentlessly hammered out until there was no possible way that LGBT people (LGBT stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) could feel excluded; there was an "equal marriage" pretend-wedding reception with punch and cake. A resolution calling for an "independent" investigation of 9/11 -- you know, because all the other 9/11 investigations weren't truly "independent" -- was adopted.Still, NOW felt just a bit...tired. Whatever you think of the feminist movement -- and I happen to deplore most of it -- the women who got it started were forces of nature, interesting people with strong personalities. They seemed to be riding the wave of history (or "herstory," as they called it). But now that the wave has crested, the current crop of NOW leaders seem less colorful than their foremothers. The issues are not new. I heard no interesting discussions, not one word of disagreement. In place of argument, there was only dogmatic insistence on inclusivity.
The quality of the "breakout sessions" radiated tiredness. The panelists were often ill-prepared, their presentations disjointed. A session on Wal-Mart drew about 40 angry women and one angry man in a purple NOW T-shirt and matching shorts. I gleaned the startling information that the "merchant of shame" -- i.e., Wal-Mart -- "seeks to dominate the retail industry through customer acquisition." That did sound nefarious! Wal-Mart's health-insurance policies and pay scale were condemned, of course. And plans were begun to test its policy on the morning-after pill (a matter of ideological, if not actual, interest to many women at the conference). Later I asked a young woman sporting an "I Prefer Girls" button if Wal-Mart might be a good issue to bring new blood into NOW. She thought not. Young and less affluent women, she explained, rely on Wal-Mart's low prices.
For me, the most memorable session was the one entitled "Feminist Media Reform." Although two NOW employees spoke, along with Kathy Bonk, a well-known feminist media specialist, the star of the session was Bree Williamson, who plays Jessica on the ABC day-time soap opera "One Life to Live." (She has also guest-starred on a Toronto-based show called "Mutant X.") Ms. Williamson, who went all pouty face when somebody noted that TV heroines tend to be blue-eyed blondes, had a message: Write letters to producers telling them what you want to see. Talk about empowerment! If viewers of "One Life" start to see Jessica battling the patriarchy, they'll know why. But one panelist implicitly questioned the effectiveness of such campaigns, lamenting that NOW failed to save Geena Davis's series "Commander in Chief." I don't know what it means that I heard more about an imaginary female president than about Hillary during the course of the weekend.
Being one of the oppressive males which NOW seems to view with bemused contempt, it is rather presumptuous of me to tell women where to spend their time. But I suspect the Independent Women's Forum is a better place than NOW.


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